With teenagers whats a good relationship for us?

well me and my boyfriend have been having some problems and like he told me he cheated on me 1 times but it was two i took him back kus i do love him and i dont like him like i use to but my feelings wont change like that so and yesterday he told me to go to the mall and i was waitin there for four hours what should i do?With teenagers whats a good relationship for us?
Ok, here is the thing. Dating is done for the purpose of meeting the person you want to marry. Yes it is fun, and not always that serious, but ultimately this is how we find out what is important to us in a mate and learn how to handle the ups and downs of a relationships. It is where you learn to care about the big picture and not obsess over the little details. It is where you learn how to be a better partner yourself. Those love feelings you have right now are not the kind of feelings you build a relationship on. They are what makes you want to get to know him better. They are not what you feel after spending years with someone. Those feelings take work on the part of 2 people. So this relationship is a growth experience. A stepping stone.





Here is what you know about him, he is a liar, a cheater (once a cheater always a cheater, he fundamentally does not love or respect you enough to stay faithful), he is not dependable, he does not consider your feelings as important as what he is doing, he does not love you, he does not respect you, and by looking at all these things you can see his moral values are not very strong.





Dump him. Move on. Look at him for who he is and realize YOU DESERVE BETTER. Everytime you think to yourself, but I LOVE him, people don't understand, sit down and imagine being married to him, having children with him. He will always cheat, you will be at risk for STDs and hearing he has fathered children with someone else...that destroys families even if you stay together. He will ALWAYS make promises and not follow through...this means you will count on him to watch the kids, fix the car, call if he is going to be late, little boring life details that add up to a lot of problems. He will ALWAYS lie and think you are too stupid to figure it out. This one effects everything.





So is this what you want for your life? If not dump him. He is not a real man and without a huge effort he will probably never grow into one. He is a selfish immoral BOY and that is not anything you should waste your time on. You are worth more. You have more to offer than he does. Believe in yourself and move on.





Good Luck.With teenagers whats a good relationship for us?
If your boyfriend is cheating on you it is time to drop him and fast.
I don't know if you want to hear an answer from a 43-year-old woman who is old enough to be your mother, but I'm responding because I care. Maybe you should back off from him for awhile. Maybe just be friends. I think sometimes teenagers rush into being serious too quickly. I'm saying this because I did it too when I was 16. I was with my boyfriend back then for 5 1/2 years, and I regreted it. Enjoy being a teenager and have friends of the opposite sex, but don't be so quick to get serious. Hope this helps. =)
you're a dumb@ss. what do you think, really? that's why girls like you are so easily fooled and taken advantage of
Your are far too valuable a person to allow someone to treat you like that. There are some boys who use girls and there are some boys who respect girls. This is one of those boys who use girls because that's exactly what he did to you and the other girls he cheated on you with. There is no boy alive who is ';all that'; to be treating you this way. I think that you should dump this boy. You have far better things you could be doing with your time.





There is a book called, For Young Women Only. It shares the inner workings of the mind of young men. It would really be a good book for you to read because it gives a lot of insight into how to interact with guys. It's up front about what guys are like.





I wish you the strength it will take to do what needs to be done. It'll be hard at first, but you are definitely worth it.
Since you are a teenager, perhaps it's best for you to know this:





Virtually NO relationships begun as teenagers today last through adulthood.





That said, you don't have to go back with an old boyfriend simply because you still love him on some level (especially if he's cheated). People get divorced, even though they still love each other on some level. This is a boyfriend, a person who will undoubtedly not be in your life in 10 years. End it. Why be with him when you don't really want to be and there's no need to try to maintain some sort of commitment?





As for him not showing up, do you know why he didn't show up? If you don't, don't jump to any conclusions. You could end up thinking he blew you off on purpose when in fact something serious might have happened, for all you know.
It is hard to let someone go especially when you have had feelings for them. But you need to be honest with yourself so that you can find someone who loves you the way you deserve to be loved. You already know that you don't trust him as much as you used to and that he treats you good only when he wants something. Basically you aren't in a commited relationship because he isn't commited. You don't need to even tell him it's over and risk him begging you back. Just let it be over and don't talk to him anymore. He won't prove to be a good friend if he can't even respect you now.
Dump your loser boyfriend and find someone who deserves you. He obviously doesn't care about you. It's really sweet that you care so much about him, but all you're doing is setting yourself up to be hurt. Find someone who deserves you.
Drop him like a bad habit!! He is so Yesterday! He is so not worth it. trust me we have all been there and he will Never change sweetie Never! I feel for you and i wish you well find someone you just could not live W/O Lilly :)
I don't know what this has to do with home-schooling, but you honestly can't be that idiotic.