What are teenagers thinking having unprotected sex? My daughter is Pregnant and only15 what do I do?

ok i disagree with all of these negative remarks becaus i was a teen mom and i had parent who tought me the right things and told me all the consiquences of getting pregnant and diseases. Well as it turns out that didnt matter to me. the reason they do it is because u know that rebellion thing some girls cut school some get tattoos and some hate the world, well we have all had some anger inside and people deal differently and some of these girls that are angry have a soft spot for kids and think that a baby would be great or if she didnt do iton purpose then she was just trying to be an adult and fell in love with the a guy and trusted him on the pull out method. regardless what the situation was theres not much u can do but support her. i got kicked out durin a hurrican when i was 6 months pregnant stayed with a guy i met at a bus stop when i had all my stuff in a suit case i was stupid and trusted him and stayed with his brother i was lucky though the guy was generally a nice guy and he had a great family! but what if he wasnt you dont want that to happen to ur daughter so just stick by her side and help her thru this u never know this baby may be a great thing 4 the 2 of u because once this baby is born she will have lots of questions and need ur advice the most.What are teenagers thinking having unprotected sex? My daughter is Pregnant and only15 what do I do?
Your anxiety is real and you should not feel like a bad parent. The reality is she made a choice regardless of your input and now the consequence is that her life will be forever changed including yours. The best way forward is to decide along with her, what will be best. It is not the end of the world and she still has her future. She needs to be a parent and with that comes all the responsibilities or she can give the baby up for adoption or the baby can be raised within your family by other relatives. Life decisions are never easy, but has long as you plan what is to come as best as you can, you and your daughter will be fine.What are teenagers thinking having unprotected sex? My daughter is Pregnant and only15 what do I do?
I'm 15 and so is my boyfriend. Yeah I got pregnant and it sure wasn't the smartest thing ive ever done but I wouldnt change it. We have sex cause we hear our friends are doing it or so many more resons. And were not always safe cause when your 15 and in the moment your not thinking about much. Just don't kick her out like my dad did. Be there and support her throughout the pregnancy. ask her if she's got questions about it. If she let's you go to the doctor with her. I went through my pregnancy with no one to really actually talk to about it and it was scary. Talk to her about what she's gunnA do when the baby comes. Is she gunnA keep doing school? Even corospondens? Is she gunna work? Where's the dad of the baby? He needs to be there for her. You also need to accept the fact there gunna be parents now
Being a teen myself (Am 18) Its different for every person. My reason was because I was in a stable relationship with a man that I truly love. By stable I mean that we have been together for three years. Have only been with each other during that time. And it took him a year and a half to get it. :)


I think that most people do it because they think that the feeling is taken away if they use a condom or they get suckered into thinking that the other person is theirs forever.
For having teenagers unprotected sex. NOT ALL OF US DO.


i hate it when i get funny looks from adults when im with a boy and hes hugging me or when im with my little brother.


YOU KNOW NOT ALL OF US ARE PLANNING ON HAVING KIDS YOUNG. I dont plan even having sex till im left school and at uni. -.-





Also, no ive not been taught about sex properly and because of the worlds sexual advertisments [adverts, movies, magazines] kids are being pushed into it. So there.





You let her have the baby and be happy for her.
Alot of 15 year olds are under alot of pressure from other kids thier age and the opposite sex,they have not been taught properly, they ahve too much freedom, they have hundreds of hormones mucking up thier judgements, end of day, she is pregnant now and you need to be thier for her no matter what she chooses to do with the pregnancy, she is your flesh and blood and you love her.
Awh, I bet this is hard on you seeing your baby having a baby huh?


Yeahh, alrightt . well i'll tell you what happend to me.


i'm 18 and pregnant. yes. i'm legal. but honestly still a baby myself.





Honestly.


i had unprotected sex. because i my parents never talked to me about sex or birthcontrol i was taking birthcontrol and thought. oh i don't need a condom. %26amp; that's because i was never taught properly. or explained anything.


So i was soon pregnant and 18!





%26amp; scared to death!








Your her parent you need to support her moral.


If she's pregnant.. and keeping it. then you can tell her you completely disagree with her choice and abortion or adoption would be better, but you'll moraly support her with any choice that she makes.








Granted.


-She's still in school


-Cant drive a car


-Cant get a job


- %26amp; doesn't her own house.





Make a list and explain to her everything... if you guys are still at conflict about what to do. Tell her before she makes any serious rational desitions you want her to look into adoption %26amp; abortion.





She's gonna have to grow up and take on the responsibillity of another life.. so don't treat her like a child anymore..





Honestly, i don't know what i'd do if my Mom didn't support me threw my pregnancyy. of course i'm muchhhhhhhh older then you daughter.. but still. i needed my mothers support..





in 3 weeks my Mother is going to be in the room with me when i have my baby.. for the past 8 1/2 months she's been the one going to the birthing classes with me.. being my partner.. %26amp; i loved it! i involved her in everything~ she's going to be a HUGEEE! part of my babys life. %26amp; sure at 1st she wen't crazy when she found out that i was pregnant.. but now she can't wait for her grandbaby to get here.





i loved the support and i'm sure your little girl would tooo!








goodluck.
hi they are not thinking but this day and time they don't care its all about them they think they are grown and what you always say is wrong even knowingly that we have all be down that rd my daughter got pregnant at 15 and i am raiseing that babies the baby is now 6 and mom is 22 and now mom had another baby at 20 and i am raiseing him my children are all growmn and now i have babies again due to drugs so know kids think they know every thing so get ready mom the older they get the worst they get good luck to you mom
First you need to tell her how disappointed you are in her but at the same time let her know that you will be there for her. She is pregnant and it is a done deal. Now everyone involved need to decide what happens next. I don't think you should have to raise ur grandbaby. You can help of course and don't make it easy for her either. If she decides to stay in school and if you can then watch the baby for her. But DO NOT watch the baby when she wants to go out or hand out with her bf and friends. She has to really grow up now and take responsibility. A baby does not ruin your life ONLY if you let it. I'm a firm believer in that. Good Luck.
They are thinking because they were not taught properly. They are self-centered, entitled, egomaniacs who only want to indulge themselves and think the world will take care of them.





You raise your grandbaby, that's what you do. It's too late now to teach her. Just don't make it easy on her. Watch the baby so she can go to school but that's it.
It may be uncomfortable but you need to tell her that she made a mistake in life. Tell her she thinks she is cool because she had sex but she isnt. Shes stupid. (for doing that.) Tell her to have her boyfriend take care of the baby. its his fault for not wearing a condom because he could have since she didnt. GOD WHY ARE TEENAGERS SO STUPID? hope i wont become a stupid one.
Raise your grandbaby and, if you don't want the father involved in your daughter's life anymore, you can certainly 'nail his hide to the wall' for Statutory Rape.
i know, the generation is screwed up! i am 15 like your daughter...the reason why i am not into sex is because of discipline and teaching from my mom.
They usually think that they are invincible and it can't happen to them and then are shocked when it does.





Edit: not all teens are like this though, remember that.
they are not thinking


those who have unprotected sex (and its not just teens who do) tend to do it in the spur of the moment








im 17
They aren't thinking - they are only 15. Give her love and support - she's just a kid, she messed up, what can you do??
teenagers think a condom is a love barrier that dont let to feel their love for each other
It's sad! I don't no why they do it! They think they're in love but there not and i think its just sad!





and i disagree with the person above don't watch the baby for her during school make her get a job and pay for childcare! You can help out ever so often but this is her responsibility! Make her cook for the baby, clean for the baby ,take care of the baby ,make her buy whatever the baby needs( babies are expensive so you can help just a tiny tiny bit)! Make her learn how hard it is and she won't be having sex again anytime soon!!
i think ur fake so get real


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